4:5 Tormentor or Mentor? An IFS Reframe on Parenting's Tough Moments

Parenting Without Power Struggles by Susan Stiffelman

Sep 10, 202617:08Kids & family

In this episode, Susan unpacks Richard Schwartz's term "tor-mentor" — the idea that our children, in the moments they frustrate us most, are also mentoring us toward healing. Ordinary friction, like being ignored, can tr...

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