4:3 Calming Rage With IFS: Helping Protective Parts Relax

Parenting Without Power Struggles by Susan Stiffelman

Aug 20, 202621:48Kids & family

Susan continues her Parenting Without Power Struggles series on Internal Family Systems, exploring how "firefighter" parts trigger intense reactivity, rage, and regrettable parenting moments. She explains that parents of...

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