3:45 Captain of the Ship Meets IFS

Parenting Without Power Struggles by Susan Stiffelman

Feb 13, 202614:25Kids & family

In this episode, Susan is joined by Lisa Spiegel, author of Internal Family Systems Therapy with Children , for a conversation about how understanding our "parts" can transform our parenting life. They explore what it me...

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