353: The Key to Relational Resilience

The Connected Life by Justin Stumvoll

Oct 6, 202501:09:51Health

Shame is one of the most powerful forces in relationships and one of the least recognized. It hides behind defensiveness, blame, denial, and emotional shutdowns. It keeps us from hearing each other, owning our impact, an...

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