372: The Fantasy of Fixing People Pt. 3

Most of us don't set out to control people—we think we're helping. We say it's love, protection, or just wanting the best. But underneath, codependency often looks like playing God , trying to save others from pain so we don't have to feel it ourselves. In this episode, Justin and Abi get personal about the subtle ways control sneaks into relationships: when someone else's choices feel like a reflection on us, when regret from our past makes us overprotective, or when fear of future consequences drives us to intervene. Through honest stories about friends, family, and faith, they unpack why pain is sometimes the very teacher people need, and how trust, boundaries, and invitation create space for real growth. If you've ever exhausted yourself fixing others or confused control for love, this conversation will help you release the weight and find freedom in letting people be fully themselves. You can WATCH us at Don't forget to RATE, REVIEW,

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372: The Fantasy of Fixing People Pt. 3 is an episode from The Connected Life by Justin Stumvoll.

This episode is 01:05:27 long.

This episode was published on Feb 16, 2026.

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