Negative Self Beliefs in Anxiety Recovery Ep 338

Want to discuss this episode with me and others that share your experience? ------- In this episode of The Anxious Truth, we look at why the lessons of floating, mindful acceptance, and exposure can feel out of reach. While the principles of recovery are simple, they are difficult to execute because they are counterintuitive and require facing the things you fear most. Beyond the initial fear, deeper obstacles rooted in background, culture, and personal experience often stop people from embracing a mindful approach. I discuss two primary belief systems that keep people stuck in control-based strategies: The "Anxiety as Failure" Belief : The idea that being anxious means you have already failed. This leads to a harsh, self-critical view where having an anxiety disorder is seen as a structural or moral defect rather than a challenge to navigate. The "Managing Others' Emotions" Belief : The fear that fully feeling and showing your anxiety will ruin someone else's day or cause distress to those around you. This belief often stems from childhood environments where you were taught to stay neutral to avoid triggering a parent or caregiver. If you hold these beliefs, you may be trapped in an endless cycle of trying to control your internal state because you feel that being "impacted" or "impaired" is not allowed. We talk about how to recognize these invisible rules and why recovery requires more than mechanical exposure—it requires challenging these long-held beliefs about your value and your responsibility for others' happiness. Recovery takes time to work through these layers. If you have been struggling to "get it," this episode explains why. For full show notes on this episode: Listen to Disordered every Friday: Send in a question or comment via text. Support The Anxious Truth: If you find the podcast helpful and want to support my work, you can buy me a coffee. Other ways to support my work like buying a book or signing up for a low cost workshop can be found on my website . None of this is never required, but always appreciated! Interested in doing therapy with me? For more information on working with me directly to overcome your anxiety, follow this link . Disclaimer : The Anxious Truth is not therapy or a replacement for therapy. Listening to The Anxious Truth does not create a therapeutic relationship between you and the host or guests of the podcast. Information here is provided for psychoeducational purposes. As always, when you have questions about your own well-being, please consult your mental health and/or medical care providers. If you are having a mental health crisis, always reach out immediately for in-person help.

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Negative Self Beliefs in Anxiety Recovery Ep 338 is an episode from The Anxious Truth - REAL Help For Panic, Anxiety and Agoraphobia by Drew Linsalata.

This episode is 28:52 long.

This episode was published on Feb 25, 2026.

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