Story Follows State: Why Your Thoughts Aren't Random

Stuck Not Broken by Justin Sunseri

Jun 30, 202610:05Health

Ever notice your thoughts get meaner when you feel bad, and softer when you feel good? That's not a coincidence, and it's not a flaw in you. "Story follows state" means the story in your head comes out of the state your...

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