Self-Regulation, Explained: Polyvagal Theory

Stuck Not Broken by Justin Sunseri

Sep 8, 202613:24Health

Sometimes the most useful information in the therapy room isn't in what someone says; it's in their hands. This episode breaks down self-regulation on a nervous system level: the two main ways we do it, top-down (thought...

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