Deb Dana's Polyvagal Ladder

Stuck Not Broken by Justin Sunseri

Jun 16, 202618:08Health

You can't just decide to calm down, sorry to say. The Polyvagal Ladder is a simple metaphor for how your nervous system moves: safety at the top, fight-or-flight in the middle, shutdown at the bottom, one rung at a time....

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