461: Why High-Achieving Women Struggle to Surrender in Sex, Love, and Relationships with Allana Pratt

Power, polarity, and being ravished… and what feminine leadership actually requires. In this powerful conversation, Monica is joined by author, speaker, and intimacy expert Allana Pratt for an honest and deeply healing exploration of motherhood, sexuality, and what it really takes to be safe in your body as a self-led woman. They talk power, polarity, orgasm, trauma healing, feminine rage, and how to stop looking outside yourself for answers. Together, they help you dismantle the layers of conditioning that keep women out of their pleasure, their leadership, and their ability to surrender. Inside the episode: 🔥 Why trauma makes it hard for high-functioning women to receive pleasure 🔥 The truth about faking orgasms, people-pleasing, and performative sex 🔥 What creates real, embodied intimacy 🔥 Why safety is often the missing link for feminine leadership 🔥 What “empowered submission” actually means (and why most women misunderstand it) 🔥 How to access and process feminine rage without exploding or shutting down 🔥 The difference between being ravished and being controlled—and why men can feel it 🔥 How to stop outsourcing your power to coaches, men, or external validation 🔥 Why trusting yourself is the secret to better sex, deeper love, and real impact 🔥 What happens when you stop numbing and start feeling everything +++++ As Mentioned In The Episode: ⇢ Connect with Allana: ⇢ Listen to Monica’s Recent Episode on Allana’s Podcast — Reclaiming Your Power and Becoming HER with Monica Yates: ⇢ Download the free PDF — The L.O.V.E.R. Method™: ⇢ Sign up for Monica’s monthly newsletter — The Boardroom & Bedroom Diaries: ⇢ Join the waitlist for Atlanta & Paris in 2026 — The Immersion: ⇢ Join the waitlist for the next round — Queen Alchemy: ⇢ Order the BOOK — Becoming HER: ⇢ Monica’s Instagram: ⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: ⇢ Full, SEARCHABLE Podcast Directory: Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot it before you submit it, and email it to us at media@monicayateshealth.com to receive an exclusive meditation track as a 'thank you' from Monica. This podcast and its content is copyright of Monica Yates Health © and Feminine as F*ck ©. All rights reserved. ||

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461: Why High-Achieving Women Struggle to Surrender in Sex, Love, and Relationships with Allana Pratt is an episode from Feminine as F*ck by Monica Yates.

This episode is 01:01:35 long.

This episode was published on Jan 28, 2026.

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