121. How Narcissists Use TONE To Control Use

Ever notice how narcissists (and others) use tone to mock someone they want us to disagree with? Sometimes it's baby voice: "And they said "You're unweasonable." Hahaha!". Why? It subtly signals to us that we shouldn't pay attention to what they are about to say. We can safely dismiss whatever the words are, because the person is being unreasonable, AS DEMONSTRATED by the tone used to convey what we claim was said. BUT... that baby tone is certainly an exaggeration designed to make us believe something and mock the person. Until we realise how tone is used, we'll be vulnerable to it being used against us. And what about "tone policing"? I.e. "I agree with what you say but I don't like how you said it?" Well... that depends if we discuss both independently, or whether tone is used as a pretext to AVOID discussing substance. I share some thoughts on this to help make you LESS vulnerable to toxic people and their manipulation techniques. And maybe help you avoid using them, if you do so without realising it.

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121. How Narcissists Use TONE To Control Use is an episode from Decoding Narcissists, Manipulation & Toxic Ideas, with Frederik Ribersson by Frederik Ribersson.

This episode is 00:36:15 long.

This episode was published on Jun 29, 2025.

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