The Most Important Question to Ask Your Kids Before Bed

What if the most powerful thing you could do for your child's confidence takes less than five minutes a day? In this short episode, we revisit a conversation with mindset coach Mark England that sparked something big — the idea of a wins journal — and we explore how one simple question before bed can reshape the story your kids tell themselves about who they are. We dive into why most of us have a black belt in dismissing our own accomplishments and how that pattern gets passed down to our children. Learn how replacing "what went wrong today" with "what went right today" connects to the Awareness → Intention → Action framework, and hear a full reading of Patrick's new children's book What's a Win I Won Today? — written to give families a way into the conversations that actually matter. 📗 Grab the book! ❤️ Free Newsletter & the Chase Club 🏁 New to Chasing Excellence? Start here! See Privacy Policy at and California Privacy Notice at .

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The Most Important Question to Ask Your Kids Before Bed is an episode from Chasing Excellence by Ben Bergeron & Patrick Cummings.

This episode is 00:18:37 long.

This episode was published on Apr 2, 2026.

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