I Want You to Watch (w/ Heidi N Closet)

Drag queen icon Heidi N Closet ( RuPaul's Drag Race S12, All Stars 8 ) is dressed up like Jesse from Pokemon to geek out over her favorite anime and spill on her beef with Nicki Minaj. Heidi opens up about the rules that keep her open relationship working and shares stories from her pre-fame jobs, including the time she cleaned literal shit at a gas station and the reason she got fired from a hospital. They also discuss her favorite sex move called "The Finisher" and her love of being watched, while Nicole shares the time she sat on a man's face for money. Check out Heidi N Closet's YouTube channel: youtube.com/@HeidiNClosetOfficial Watch this episode on our YouTube channel at Support this podcast and get discounts by checking out our sponsors: » HelloFresh : Go to HelloFresh.com/dateme10fm to Get 10 free meals + a FREE Zwilling Knife (a $144.99 value) on your third box. *Offer valid while supplies last. Free meals applied as discount on first box, new subscribers only, varies by plan. » Function : Own your health for $365 a yea. Learn more and join using my link. Visit functionhealth.com/DATEME and use gift code DATEME for a $25 credit toward your membership. » Planned Parenthood : Donate to support Planned Parenthood now at plannedparenthood.org/defend . » Squarespace : Head to squarespace.com/DATEME to save 10% off your first purchase of a website or domain using code DATEME. » NOCD : If you're struggling with OCD or unrelenting intrusive thoughts, NOCD can help. Book a free 15 minute call to get started: learn.nocd.com/DATEME » Betterhelp : This show is sponsored by BetterHelp. Visit betterhelp.com/dateme today to get 10% off your first month. Follow: All Links: linktr.ee/whywontyoudateme Tour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken YouTube: @WhyWontYouDateMePodcast TikTok: @whywontyoudatemepod Instagram: @nicolebyer X: @nicolebyer Nicole's book, : indiebound.org/book/9781524850746 This is a Headgum podcast. Follow Headgum on Twitter , Instagram , and Tiktok . Advertise on Why Won't You Date Me? via Gumball.fm . See Privacy Policy at and California Privacy Notice at .

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I Want You to Watch (w/ Heidi N Closet) is an episode from Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer by Headgum.

This episode is 00:53:05 long.

This episode was published on Feb 6, 2026.

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