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Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer

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Nicole Byer is single and has been for decades. She’s smart, funny, has a fat ass and loves giving blow jobs. So the question is why is she perpetually single? This podcast is a quest to fin...

Episodes

20 of 471 episodes

I Wanna Be a Slut (w/ Lisa Hanawalt)

Illustrator and friend Lisa Hanawalt (Bojack Horseman, Tuca & Bertie) returns to the podcast to chat about starting fresh in the dating scen...

00:42:02Oct 16, 2026

Are YOU The Problem? (w/ Darlene Mitchell)

Drag queen Darlene Mitchell ( Drag Race S18 ) joins Nicole for a chat about finding love in the Instagram DMs, pulling off a tear-jerking su...

01:03:50Oct 9, 2026

Grilling Nicole's Man (w/ Ms. Pat)

Comedian Ms. Pat joins Nicole to reveal the true secret to surviving a 33-year marriage, shares the brutal realities of menopause nobody tal...

00:45:18Oct 2, 2026

Dating a Short King (w/ Marcella Arguello)

We’ve all heard the persistent dating mandate that the ideal man needs to be over 6ft tall. But what happens when you’re a 6"2 woman facing...

00:56:16Sep 25, 2026

Finally Ready to Confess (w/ BenDeLaCreme)

Drag queen icon BenDeLaCreme ( Drag Race 6, All-Stars 3 ) joins Nicole to spill some major breaking news: they've been secretly separated fr...

00:50:05Sep 18, 2026

The Most Chaotic Friendship Ever (w/ Meatball and Big Dipper)

Why Won't You Date Me is taking a quick break this week while Nicole is out of town filming, but we'd never leave you high and dry! Instead,...

01:14:54Sep 11, 2026

The AI Dating Dystopia (w/ Jarvis Johnson)

YouTuber Jarvis Johnson (Host of Sad Boyz ) joins Nicole to discuss the dystopian reality of how AI has changed the dating landscape, from p...

00:51:43Sep 4, 2026

The Catfish Who Wanted to "Teach Me a Lesson" (w/ Onya Nurve)

Drag queen superstar Onya Nurve (Winner of RuPaul's Drag Race S17 ) joins Nicole to talk about the time she was catfished on a dating app by...

00:48:13Aug 28, 2026

Juggling A 7-Man Harem (w/ Kim Newmoney)

Nicole's photographer, Kim Newmoney (VOGUE, #VERYFAT #VERYBRAVE) chats with her about the logistics and managing a harem of 7 hot men. They...

00:48:55Aug 21, 2026

Dating a Hollywood Scammer (w/ Bresha Webb)

Comedian Bresha Webb ( Run the World, Hacks ) joins Nicole to share her terrible experience accientally dating a Hollywood scammer. Bresha a...

00:43:46Aug 14, 2026

The Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Date (w/ Eliot Glazer)

Comedian and writer Eliot Glazer ( Broad City, New Girl ) returns to the podcast! He shares how a group blind date quickly turned into a one...

00:59:26Aug 7, 2026

The 'Goblintimacy' Dating Trend (w/ Devon Walker)

Comedian Devon Walker ( SNL, Big Mouth) returns to the podcast to join Nicole for a chat about "goblintimacy", the new dating trend where yo...

00:59:47Jul 31, 2026

The Truth About TV Showmances (w/ Lydia B Kollins)

Drag queen Lydia B Kollins ( Drag Race S17, All Stars S10 ) joins Nicole to spill the behind-the-scenes tea on her iconic Drag Race showmanc...

00:45:27Jul 24, 2026

Sharing Trade (w/ Willam Belli)

Drag queen icon Willam ( Drag Race S4, host of Race Chasers ) returns! She joins Nicole to break down the mathematical formula for the optim...

00:59:10Jul 17, 2026

My Career Ruined my Relationships (w/ June Jambalaya)

Drag queen June Jambalaya (Drag Race S14) joins Nicole to discuss hiding her drag career from her dates, being engaged twice, and leaving he...

00:47:02Jul 10, 2026

Hiring a Zoom Stripper (w/ Liza Treyger)

Comedian and friend Liza Treyger ( Night Owl , host of That's Messed Up ) returns to the podcast! She shares her sobering experience hiring...

01:01:51Jul 3, 2026

Tossing Shade (w/ Bosco)

Drag queen icon Bosco (Drag Race S14, All Stars S10) makes her return to toss even more shade. She shares why the secret to polished drag is...

00:49:30Jun 26, 2026

Creatively Building a Family (w/ Sabrina Jalees)

Comedian Sabrina Jalees (Mating Season) returns to the podcast! Sabrina talks about how she and her wife made a family, including picking ou...

00:58:31Jun 19, 2026

Having A Self-Love Affair (w/ Jujubee)

You ready for some good juju? This week, iconic drag queen Jujubee ( Drag Race , Stop! That! Train! ) joins Nicole to talk about the power o...

00:48:22Jun 12, 2026

Setting Relationship Boundaries (w/ Trixie Mattel)

Drag queen Trixie Mattel (Drag Race S7, All Stars 3) returns to the podcast! After experiencing how exhausting it is to navigate a private b...

01:15:24Jun 5, 2026