Dating with Borderline Personality Disorder (w/ Makhyli)

Artist and actress Makhyli ( Boys World ) joins Nicole to chat about her experience dating while in a pop girl group. Makhyli shares how she literally created a "Build-A-Boy" slideshow presentation to manifest her current boyfriend - and it actually worked! The girls swap their worst car-date horror stories, from a guy so cheap he forced Makhyli to share a single McDonald's french fry, to a man who casually had rotting food in his backseat. Makhyli opens up about navigating relationship paranoia with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), and the two discuss tips they've picked up for dating with ADHD. Plus they chat about their love for the latest season of Love on the Spectrum . Makhyli's new single, I Need You (Cat and Mouse) is out now! Watch this episode on our YouTube channel at Take our listener survey and shape the future of the podcast! Support this podcast and get discounts by checking out our sponsors: Jones Road : Use code DATEME at jonesroadbeauty.com to get a Free Shimmer Face Oil with your first purchase! Warby Parker : Our listeners can buy one prescription pair and get 20% off additional pairs at WarbyParker.com/DATEME — and using our link helps support the show. Lola Blankets : Get 40% off your entire order at Lolablankets.com by using code DATEME at checkout. Experience the world’s blanket with Lola Blankets. Follow: All Links: linktr.ee/whywontyoudateme Tour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken YouTube: @WhyWontYouDateMePodcast TikTok: @whywontyoudatemepod Instagram: @nicolebyer X: @nicolebyer This is a Headgum podcast. Follow Headgum on Twitter , Instagram , and Tiktok . Advertise on Why Won't You Date Me? via Gumball.fm . See Privacy Policy at and California Privacy Notice at .

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Dating with Borderline Personality Disorder (w/ Makhyli) is an episode from Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer by Headgum.

This episode is 00:59:40 long.

This episode was published on Apr 17, 2026.

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