1230: How To Calm Your Nervous System In Social Situations Using The Claire Weekes Method

In today's episode, Gina responds to a listener question about intense social anxiety, in this case, especially around men. The anxiety loop is referenced and the Claire Weekes method for managing and overcoming this anxiety process is discussed. The face, accept, float and let time pass are covered in some detail, as are using gradual exposure and self-compassion. This episode is full of helpful tips and hints to start to get you over your anxiety today! Stillpoint Fridays is my once-a-week Friday note — a slower, more personal reflection that’s different from what I share on the podcast. If you’d like a quiet place to land as the week winds down, you can join here: or on our website anxietycoachespodcast.com and sign up for the newsletter. Please visit our Sponsor Page to find all the links and codes for our awesome sponsors! Website Join our community Group Coaching Join our Group Coaching Full or Mini Membership Program 1:1 Coaching Learn more about our One-on-One Coaching If you prefer to listen AD-FREE , try our Supercast premium access membership : Learn more about anxiety What is anxiety? Free Guided Meditation for Calming Your Anxious Mind 10-Minute Body-Scan Meditation for Anxiety Quote: Do not try to ‘control’ your anxiety. Accept it fully. Float through it. Let time pass. - Dr. Claire Weekes Chapters 0:26 Welcome to the Anxiety Coaches Podcast 1:54 Understanding Social Anxiety Triggers 8:20 Applying Dr. Weeks' Approach 12:36 The Healing Process of Letting Time Pass 14:31 Working with Anxiety Thoughts 16:16 Steps for Gentle Exposure 21:06 Strategies for Grounding in Moments of Anxiety 22:23 Closing Thoughts and Farewell Summary In this episode, I explore the profound teachings of Dr. Claire Weekes, particularly her approach to managing anxiety through acceptance and mindfulness. Emphasizing the importance of not trying to control anxiety, I invite listeners to fully accept their feelings and “float through” the discomfort that arises. By allowing time to pass without resistance, we can gradually find our way back to a state of calm. I address a listener's question regarding intense social anxiety, specifically around interactions with men. This situation serves as a perfect example to illustrate how anxiety forms and operates in a familiar cycle of fear and avoidance. The listener described experiencing physical symptoms such as shortness of breath and panic at the sight of men, especially those she perceives as attractive. I reassure her and others in similar situations that these reactions stem from the nervous system's protective instincts, which are often rooted in past experiences rather than present threats. Understanding the anxiety loop is crucial in breaking free from these patterns. I explain how our bodies react to perceived threats, triggering a response that feeds into a feedback loop of fear where the mind interprets these physiological sensations negatively, leading to further anxiety. The key takeaway is that our reactions are habitual rather than indicative of real danger. We can learn to recognize this cycle and begin to reshape our responses over time. , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , See Privacy Policy at and California Privacy Notice at .

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1230: How To Calm Your Nervous System In Social Situations Using The Claire Weekes Method is an episode from The Anxiety Coaches Podcast by Gina Ryan.

This episode is 00:23:50 long.

This episode was published on Mar 22, 2026.

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