Episode 484: Who’s Responsible for Your Orgasm? (Essential Listen)

How much do you really know about orgasms? In this episode, we answer common questions about climax and explore the concept of orgasm equity, including what it really means to close the orgasm gap. We’ll also discuss strategies for experiencing more pleasure, and whether becoming multi-orgasmic is something you can actually learn. My guest is Dr. Candice Nicole Hargons , an award-winning Associate Professor at Emory University’s Rollins School of Public Health, where she studies sexual wellness and liberation. With over 70 published articles, Dr. Hargons has made substantial contributions to the field. Her work has also been featured widely in the popular media. Her latest book is titled Good Sex . Some of the specific topics we explore in this episode include: Who’s responsible for your orgasm during partnered sex? What do porn and popular media get wrong about how orgasms are portrayed? Why do some people feel like they need to fake orgasms? Is it ever okay to fake an orgasm? Scientifically, what actually is an orgasm anyway? Check out Candice’s website to learn more about her work. Got a sex question? Send me a podcast voicemail to have it answered on a future episode at speakpipe.com/sexandpsychology. *** Thank you to our sponsors! Load Boost is a supplement designed to improve the taste, volume, and overall health of your semen. If you want to elevate your sexual performance, check out Load Boost from VB Health. Visit vb.health to learn more and save 10% with code JUSTIN. Passionate about building a career in sexuality? Check out the Sexual Health Alliance. With SHA, you’ll connect with world-class experts and join an engaged community of sexuality professionals from around the world. Visit SexualHealthAlliance.com and start building the sexuality career of your dreams today. *** Want to learn more about Sex and Psychology? Click here for previous articles or follow the blog on Facebook , Twitter , or Bluesky to receive updates. You can also follow Dr. Lehmiller on YouTube and Instagram . Listen and stream all episodes on Apple , Spotify , or Amazon .

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Episode 484: Who’s Responsible for Your Orgasm? (Essential Listen) is an episode from Sex and Psychology Podcast by Dr. Justin Lehmiller.

This episode is 31:01 long.

This episode was published on Mar 17, 2026.

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