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Why You Get Defensive When You Hear “You’ve Hurt My Feelings”

Secure Marriage Podcast by Paul & Shannon Elmore

Jul 7, 202520:23Kids & family

Why do we immediately put up walls when someone says ‘You’ve hurt my feelings’? In this episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast , you’ll discover the psychological reason behind this universal resp...

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Why You Get Defensive When You Hear “You’ve Hurt My Feelings” is an episode from Secure Marriage Podcast by Paul & Shannon Elmore. Why do we immediately put up walls when someone says ‘You’ve hurt my feelings’? In this epi...

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Published Jul 7, 2025, 20:23 long, audio available.

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Why do we immediately put up walls when someone says ‘You’ve hurt my feelings’? In this episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast , you’ll discover the psychological reason behind this universal response and learn a simple but powerful reframe that can transform these vulnerable moments into opportunities for deeper intimacy. This insight completely changed how Shannon and I handle hurt feelings—and it will change your marriage too.

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Published Jul 7, 2025 and 20:23 long