348: Why Accusations Are Toxic To Your Marriage

Secure Marriage Podcast by Paul & Shannon Elmore

Jan 20, 202630:31Kids & family

When you’re hurt or frustrated, it’s easy for your thoughts to turn into accusations and internal statements of blame. In this episode, Shannon and I talk about why accusations are so damaging to emotional safety, even w...

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