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Secure Marriage Podcast

Paul & Shannon Elmore

Fight Less, Feel Understood, & Enjoy A Deeper Connection of Your Spouse

Episodes

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350: I’m No Longer Attracted To My Spouse

If you’ve found yourself wondering why the attraction you once felt has faded, you’re not alone. It also doesn’t always me...

33:44Jul 3, 2026

349: We’ve Entered Into A New Season of Life

Life is made up of seasons, and every season asks something different of your marriage. As Shannon and I enter a new chapter ourselves, we t...

25:49Jun 27, 2026

348: Why Accusations Are Toxic To Your Marriage

When you’re hurt or frustrated, it’s easy for your thoughts to turn into accusations and internal statements of blame. In this episode, Shan...

30:31Jan 20, 2026

347: The Year of Adventures

2026 feels like a fresh page, and maybe you’re sensing a desire for more—more connection, more laughter, more shared experiences with the pe...

19:29Jan 9, 2026

What it Takes To Forgive An Incredibly Hurtful Husband

Forgiving your husband after he’s caused deep emotional pain can feel overwhelming. You may want healing, but you don’t want to excuse what...

37:33Jan 1, 2026

Why You Get Defensive When You Hear “You’ve Hurt My Feelings”

Why do we immediately put up walls when someone says ‘You’ve hurt my feelings’? In this episode of the Secure Marriage Pod...

20:23Jul 7, 2025

This Simple Trick Will Make Your Spouse Happier

Want to make your spouse smile more, without grand gestures or big talks? In this episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, Shannon and I shar...

14:38Jun 25, 2025

343: When should you start seeing progress in marriage therapy?

If you’re feeling stuck or wondering if your marriage therapy is even working, this is the episode where we break down the hidden signs of p...

25:11Feb 10, 2025

342: Doing THIS Creates The Deepest Connection

Ever wonder what truly creates the deepest connection in a relationship? In this episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, Shannon and I unpac...

21:21Jan 27, 2025

341: Don’t Let Comparison Become the Cancer in Your Relationship

If you’re not careful, comparison can creep in and quietly start sabotaging your relationship. In this episode of the Secure Marriage Podcas...

20:04Jan 14, 2025

340: Stop Chasing: How to Rebuild Attraction During a Marriage Separation

Are you in the middle of a marriage separation? In this episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, Shannon and I talk about the one thing that’...

14:01Jan 10, 2025

339: Why Your Husband Thinks Your Feelings Are Always Wrong

Feeling dismissed when you try to share your emotions with your husband? In this episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, Shannon and I unpac...

30:50Jan 7, 2025

Husbands, Stop Trying To Fix Your Wife

Does your wife just want to vent, but you can’t resist jumping in to fix things? In this episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, Shannon and...

24:09Jan 3, 2025

Six Steps to Fix A Struggling Marriage

Is your marriage feeling more like a battleground than a partnership? On this episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, Shannon and I share th...

31:07Dec 6, 2024

Strengthen Your Relationship: How to Work Together as a Team

“Do you and your spouse struggle to tackle challenges as a team? In this episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast , Paul & Shannon share...

22:07Dec 3, 2024

7 Magic Questions to Make You An Empathetic Husband

If you’re a husband that struggles to emotionally connect with your wife, you’re going to want to download our 7 Magic Questions for Husband...

21:24Nov 25, 2024

My Wife Doesn’t Like Sex. Should I leave?

It’s been a little bit since our last podcast episode, but… we’re back. In this episode, we delve into the complexities of...

20:41Nov 13, 2024

I Don’t Feel Like I’m Important To My Husband

Once again, I’ve been an imperfect husband. Unknowingly, over the last several months, I’ve been doing something that has made my wife feel...

21:00Jul 29, 2024

Supporting Your Spouse’s Wild Ideas

Sometimes, my wife comes up with some CRAZY dreams and ideas. It’s in those moments that my true character as her husband is revealed. On to...

18:14Jul 25, 2024

2024 Marriage Cruise Recap

Want to work on having a happier marriage while enjoying the beautiful blue waters and white sandy beaches of the Caribbean? Listen in on th...

17:22Jul 22, 2024