Q&A! Your Boyfriend Isn't "Obsessed" With You & Your Dad Has 2 Girlfriends - Ep 453

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your elderly dad is juggling two girlfriends, is it acceptable to refuse to meet them? When your stepmom "forgets" your rule around holiday travel, is it better to hold firm or just keep the peace? Your boyfriend tells you you're perfect but also says he isn't "obsessed"—what's your next move? Finally, if you did a sizable favor for a friend and she never even bought you a meal as thanks, does confronting her make *you* the A-hole?? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions. Thanks to our sponsors! - Text SHANDY to 64000 to get a Pocket Hose's FREE pocket pivot and 10-pattern sprayer with the purchase of ANY size Copper Head hose! - Go to and use code SHANDY for 50% off your night guard! - Buy any two cans of Olipop in store and we’ll pay you back for one. Go to ! - Go to for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to and use code SHANDY for up to 20% off! - Go to for 15% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 0:45 - Q1: My Elderly Dad Is Juggling Two “Girlfriends”—Help! 9:47 - Q2: My Stepmom Is Ignoring My Holiday Travel Boundaries—Help! 18:03 - Q3: My Boyfriend Tells Me I’m Perfect But Also Says He Isn’t “Obsessed” With Me 34:34 - Q4: My Longtime Friend Did Nothing To Acknowledge The Favor Gave Her—AITA For Confronting Her? If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com

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Q&A! Your Boyfriend Isn't "Obsessed" With You & Your Dad Has 2 Girlfriends - Ep 453 is an episode from Dear Shandy by Sharleen Joynt & Andy Levine.

This episode is 00:56:40 long.

This episode was published on Mar 19, 2026.

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