Q&A! Blinded By Breadcrumbs & Does His Bad Taste Mean Bad Compatibility? - Ep 460

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you love your husband but find his career boring AF, should you feign interest to spare his feelings, or be 100% honest about your disinterest? Is it acceptable to become close friends with your best friend's partner, even if your best friend doesn't approve? Has Shandy ever dated anyone who brought out the worst in them, and what are their thoughts on "breadcrumbing" in dating? Finally, if your date regularly brings you the ugliest flowers you've ever seen, does that speak to a deeper compatibility and "taste" issue? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to for 15% off! - Go to and use code SHANDY for 20% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:17 - Q1: I’m Bored To Tears When My Husband Talks About His Job—AITA? 21:16 - Q2: Can I Be Best Friends With My Best Friend’s Wife? 30:27 - Q3: I’m Still Hung Up On A Girl Who Brought Out The Worst In Me—Help! 43:42 - Q4: My New Flame Is Great But His Taste Is Not—Help! If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com

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Q&A! Blinded By Breadcrumbs & Does His Bad Taste Mean Bad Compatibility? - Ep 460 is an episode from Dear Shandy by Sharleen Joynt & Andy Levine.

This episode is 01:08:56 long.

This episode was published on Apr 16, 2026.

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