How to Get on The Same Page As Your Spouse

In this episode, Chris and I tackle two questions from our community that we see coming up time and time again: How do you create financial independence within a marriage, and how do you get on the same page with your spouse about money? Key Topics: The Reality for Women & Finances Nearly 1 in 3 Canadian women have no individual savings outside shared household finances After divorce, women's household income drops 23% on average (vs. only 10% for men) Women live 4-6 years longer than men but hold significantly less in retirement savings Why We Need to Talk About This Money is likely the reason for divorce after infidelity We share our own journey—from financial stress and scorekeeping to building a healthier partnership The importance of viewing both partners' contributions (including stay-at-home work valued at $150-200K/year!) as equal Getting on the Same Page: Our Best Advice Start with the numbers—listen to last week's episode on preparing for a financial needs analysis Have the uncomfortable conversation and sit with the discomfort Focus on shared goals and values, not just budgets Schedule regular "money dates" to stay aligned Building Financial Independence Within Marriage Why you need separate accounts AND joint accounts Making sure both names are on major assets (mortgage, house deed, etc.) Understanding life insurance, disability, and critical illness coverage The difference between mortgage insurance and personal life insurance (this one's huge!) Creating a shared document with all your accounts and investments Red Flags to Watch For No access to financial information, logins, or passwords One partner controlling 100% of the money Being blocked from working or creating your own income Action Steps: Have the conversation—even if it's uncomfortable Get educated on basic financial literacy Consider booking a call with a financial advisor to create a plan together Make sure you both understand where all your money is and how it's protected Click here to listen: Apple Podcasts – CLICK HERE Spotify – CLICK HERE Free Resources: Free Perimenopause Support Guide | jennpike.com/perimenopausesupport Free Blood Work Guide | jennpike.com/bloodworkguide The Simplicity Sessions Podcast | jennpike.com/podcast Get 20% on thewalkingpad.com using code "JENNPIKE20" Get discounts at happybumco.com using code "JENNPIKE" *code doesn't apply with Black Friday sale* Programs: Ignite: Your 8-Week Body Transformation Program | The Peri & Menopause Project - Join the Waitlist | jennpike.com/theperimenopauseproject Synced Virtual Fitness Studio | jennpike.com/synced Services: Work With Jenn | Functional Testing | jennpike.com/testing-packages Business Mentorship | The Audacious Woman Mentorship: jennpike.com/theaudaciouswoman Connect with Jenn: Instagram | @jennpike Facebook | @thesimplicityproject YouTube | Simplicity TV Website | The Simplicity Project Inc. Connect with Chris: Instagram | @chrisborsellino Finance Discovery Session | Book Here Have a question? Send it over to hello@jennpike.com and I'll do my best to share helpful insights, thoughts and advice.

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How to Get on The Same Page As Your Spouse is an episode from The Simplicity Sessions by Jenn Pike.

This episode is 53:48 long.

This episode was published on Feb 26, 2026.

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