How To Talk To Your Partner About Trauma With Elizabeth Earnshaw

In this replay conversation, therapist and author Elizabeth Earnshaw discusses the challenges faced by trauma survivors in relationships, particularly the need for understanding and effective communication with partners. She emphasizes the importance of empathy, active listening, and creating a safe space for sharing experiences. She also provides strategies for expressing needs to partners and navigating situations where partners may struggle to understand or respond appropriately. The conversation highlights the significance of persistence in communication and the potential for healing through supportive relationships. takeaways Many trauma survivors feel isolated and misunderstood by their partners. It's essential for partners to listen and hold space for trauma survivors. Survivors need to clarify what understanding looks like for them. Empathy and compassion are crucial in supporting a loved one with trauma. Effective communication requires choosing the right time and approach. Expressing positive needs can reduce defensiveness in conversations. Partners should be responsive and curious about their loved one's experiences. It's important to gauge a partner's ability to listen and support. Persistence in communication can help partners improve their understanding. Safe relationships allow for ongoing discussions about needs and feelings. Liz's book: Til Stress Do Us Part: How to Heal the Issue in Our Relationships Website: Find a list of trauma recovery books + resources for the healing trauma journey. SUPPORT this podcast for the cost of a coffee. Your support is appreciated! When you buy me a coffee, your support goes towards keeping the podcast running. HERE:

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How To Talk To Your Partner About Trauma With Elizabeth Earnshaw is an episode from The Healing Trauma Podcast by Monique Koven .

This episode is 21:28 long.

This episode was published on Apr 9, 2026.

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