You're Actually Not Bothering People Enough

The Happiness Lab with Dr. Laurie Santos by Pushkin Industries

Aug 10, 202626:05Society & Culture

Most of us hate asking for favors. We worry about being a burden, coming across as needy, or facing rejection for asking too much. But what if our fear of bothering people is stopping us, and the people around us, from b...

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