Constructive conflict: how to argue well during divorce

If you’re finding conflict hard to manage during separation and co-parenting, this episode is full of practical tips to help you disagree in a calmer, more constructive way. Kate is joined by psychotherapist and divorce coach Eve Stanway to explore why arguments aren’t always a bad thing – and how learning to disagree well can transform your relationship with your ex-partner and your children. In this episode, we cover: Eve’s separation story and how arguments shaped it Why arguments don’t have to be destructive How to break cycles of unproductive conflict The key skills that stop disagreements from escalating Why self-regulation matters during separation and co-parenting How to have productive arguments with your children This episode is for anyone navigating separation or co-parenting who wants to reduce conflict and communicate more effectively. Meet Eve Stanway Eve Stanway is a psychotherapist with 25 years of experience, break-up and divorce coach and published author who specialises in guiding parents, individuals and professionals through separation, co-parenting and recovery from toxic relationships. You can learn more about Eve and get in touch with her on her website , and for more helpful communication tips, you can tune in to her brand-new podcast, Dare To Speak: Difficult Conversations That Change Everything . More divorce resources Need expert help right now? Book a free 15-minute consultation with an amicable expert for guidance on the legal, financial, emotional or co-parenting aspects of separation. Or explore our Separating with Children Service – a 90-minute joint session with a Co-parenting Specialist tailored to your family’s needs. Want ongoing support through separation? Kate’s book amicable divorce is out in March, including dedicated chapters on reducing conflict, communication and co-parenting. Find it on Amazon today. Want to stay organised as co-parents? As a thank you for listening, here’s 3 months of the amicable co-parenting app for free! Open this link on your phone, install the app and create your account. Once that’s done, select 'I have a promo code' when setting up your family, enter PODCAST, press ‘apply’ and enjoy staying organised together. Got a question for a future episode? Share your thoughts at hello@amicable.co.uk or through direct messages on Instagram .

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Constructive conflict: how to argue well during divorce is an episode from The Divorce Podcast by amicable.

This episode is 36:45 long.

This episode was published on Feb 16, 2026.

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