304 I Why All-Or-Nothing Thinking Is Keeping You Stuck

If you’ve been feeling like your only options are to stay miserable or burn it all down, this episode is for you. In today’s episode, I’m talking about how all-or-nothing thinking shows up in our careers, particularly for high achievers and why this black-and-white mindset keeps so many capable, talented people feeling stuck, frustrated, and disengaged. I share why this way of thinking actually makes a lot of sense given how you’ve been rewarded throughout your career, and why shifting from making “forever decisions” to treating your career as a series of experiments can unlock clarity, confidence, and momentum. ✨ What You’ll Learn in This Episode Why all-or-nothing thinking feels logical, and how it quietly keeps you stuck How high achievers get trapped by the belief that every career move must be perfect and permanent Why clarity doesn’t come before action, it’s created through action How to reframe career decisions as experiments instead of life sentences What it really looks like to move forward without having everything figured out 🧭 Action Steps Notice the binary language you’re using Start paying attention to thoughts like “If I leave, I’ve wasted everything” or “If I don’t know the perfect move, I shouldn’t move at all.” Awareness is the first step to change. Make decisions for a season, not forever Ask yourself: What decision makes sense for this next season of my career? Releasing the pressure of permanence makes it easier to move forward. Actively look for the middle ground Instead of choosing between extremes, explore small experiments, tests, or shifts that allow you to gather real data before committing. 🤍 Ready for Support? If you’re navigating the grey area and want support identifying your options, testing what fits, and moving forward with intention, I’d love to help. You can book a Career Clarity Call with me to explore whether my one-to-one coaching programme is the right next step. My work is designed to help you move from feeling unsure and stuck to having clarity, structure, and a sense of ease about what’s next. If this episode resonated, please share it with someone who needs to hear it . The more people who hear the show, the more people I can support in leading their careers with intention. Until next time, take care of yourself 🔗 Get in Touch Want to get in touch or give us feedback? Email us at podcast@ca Send us Fan Mail Invest in Yourself and Your Career: Community — Join our Network for mid-career women redesigning what's next in their careers Coaching — Join the Waitlist for The Portfolio Career Academy . Turn Your Expertise Into Multiple Streams of Income & Impact Through Building A Portfolio Career. Join The Waitlist Connect with me! Website: careerchangemakers.com Email: podcast@careerchangemakers.com LinkedIn: Janine Esbrand Instagram: @careerchangemakerspodcast Career Change Makers on Apple Podcasts

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304 I Why All-Or-Nothing Thinking Is Keeping You Stuck is an episode from The Career Change Maker Podcast by Janine Esbrand - Executive Coach, Career Strategist, Keynote Speaker .

This episode is 9:50 long.

This episode was published on Jan 15, 2026.

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