301 I When Your Career Looks Good on Paper but Feels Wrong in Real Life

In this episode of the Career Change Maker Podcast, I explore what happens when your career looks successful on the outside, but feels misaligned on the inside. So many high-achieving women reach a point in mid-career where everything appears to be going well - the title, the experience, the trajectory...yet there’s a quiet sense of dissatisfaction that won’t go away. Not because they’ve failed, but because they’ve grown. I talk about why this tension is so common, why it often shows up after years of building momentum, and how staying in roles that no longer fit the season of life you’re in can slowly drain your energy. I also share reflections from my own journey of moving away from private practice as a corporate lawyer, and why permission, not urgency was the turning point for me. If you’ve been asking yourself “Is this it?” or going back and forth about whether you should make a change, this episode will help you pause, listen to the information your body and mind are giving you, and think more intentionally about what alignment looks like now. ✅ What You’ll Learn in This Episode Why feeling dissatisfied in a “good on paper” career is more common than you think How misalignment often shows up in mid-career for high-achieving women The hidden energy cost of staying in roles that no longer fit your season of life Why clarity matters more than urgency when considering a career pivot How to move out of mental looping and into intentional decision-making 💡 Action Steps 1. Look Ahead, Not Just Around Ask yourself how you would feel if nothing changed in your career by December 2026. 2. Identify What’s Draining You Get specific about which parts of your work take the most energy — and why. 3. Notice What You’re Tolerating Reflect on what you’re putting up with now that you wouldn’t have accepted in the past. Use these reflection questions: If nothing changed over the next year, how would I feel? What aspects of my role drain me the most — and why? What am I tolerating now that’s contributing to this misalignment? If you’re at a career crossroads and want support gaining clarity, I offer Career Pivot Clarity Calls - one-to-one conversations to help you understand where you are, what’s no longer working, and what your next best move could be. You can book yours using the link in the show notes. Send us Fan Mail Invest in Yourself and Your Career: Community — Join our Network for mid-career women redesigning what's next in their careers Coaching — Join the Waitlist for The Portfolio Career Academy . Turn Your Expertise Into Multiple Streams of Income & Impact Through Building A Portfolio Career. Join The Waitlist Connect with me! Website: careerchangemakers.com Email: podcast@careerchangemakers.com LinkedIn: Janine Esbrand Instagram: @careerchangemakerspodcast Career Change Makers on Apple Podcasts

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301 I When Your Career Looks Good on Paper but Feels Wrong in Real Life is an episode from The Career Change Maker Podcast by Janine Esbrand - Executive Coach, Career Strategist, Keynote Speaker .

This episode is 12:00 long.

This episode was published on Dec 18, 2025.

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