How to Be Assertive Without Being Harsh

The Best of You by Dr. Alison Cook

Aug 24, 20269:22Health

Today’s Scripture: Proverbs 25:11–15 What do you do when you need to say something hard—but you don’t want to become harsh in the process? Proverbs gives us a surprising picture of strength: words that are clear and trut...

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