How to Get Out of Your Head (For Real) with Matthew Wenske

Most athletes assume performance is all about physical ability, but what happens in your mind often matters more. In this episode of the Perform Happy Podcast, I sit down with Matthew Wenske to explore how mental habits shape confidence, consistency, and long-term success. Matthew is a former elite gymnast, US national team member, and NCAA national champion who now works in mental health. He shares his journey from being extremely hard on himself as a young athlete to learning how mindset directly impacts performance and enjoyment in the sport. We talk about negative thoughts. Every athlete experiences them, especially under pressure. Matthew explains that thoughts like “don’t fall” can actually lead to mistakes, and how simple mental shifts like focusing on rhythm or execution can improve consistency. Another key takeaway is self-talk. Many athletes believe being tough on themselves will help them improve, but Matthew shows that it often does more harm than good. Treating yourself with the same encouragement you would give a teammate leads to better results. We also discuss confidence. It is not something you either have or don’t have. It is built through preparation, repetition, and trusting your training when it counts. We also talk about resilience. Mistakes are part of the process, but learning to reset quickly and move forward is what separates great athletes. Developing a short memory and focusing on what is next can make a huge difference. In this episode you will hear Why negative thoughts are normal and how to handle them How self-talk affects performance Why preparation builds confidence How to bounce back from mistakes In this episode, Matthew Wenske shares how to get out of your head and perform with more confidence, focus, and control. Learn exactly what to say and do to guide your athlete through a mental block with my new book "Parenting Through Mental Blocks" Order your copy today: Follow me on Instagram: Join my FaceBook page: Check out my website: Write to me! Email: rebecca@completeperformancecoaching.com Ready to help your athlete overcome fears and mental blocks while gaining unstoppable confidence? Discover the transformative power of PerformHappy now. If your athlete is struggling or feeling left behind, it's time for a change. Are you ready? For more info and to sign up: PerformHappy.com

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How to Get Out of Your Head (For Real) with Matthew Wenske is an episode from PerformHappy with Rebecca Smith by Kelvin Nichols.

This episode is 38:12 long.

This episode was published on May 5, 2026.

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