Stop Being "Chill" on Dating Apps: Why You Must Be Ruthless Jennie Young • 448

What if being "chill" on the apps is actually the reason you keep attracting the wrong people? Jennie Young breaks down the rhetorical patterns toxic men use on dating apps and why most women are trained to talk themselves out of their own gut reactions. This conversation goes beyond red flag checklists into the actual language mechanics that make manipulation so hard to see in real time. What you'll learn: Why the test-and-apologize pattern isn't an accident How the apps are designed against your best interests The switch-flip method that keeps your brain in charge first Jennie Young is a rhetoric professor and founder of the Burned Haystack Dating Method, a community of over 250,000 women. She built a system for decoding manipulative communication using the same tools used to analyze everything from political speech to domestic abuse cases. Find Jennie's book "Burned Haystack" and all links at: Ready to stop second-guessing your gut with real support? Join the free Mind Love Collective for monthly themed calls and weekly challenge accountability. mindlove.com/join See Privacy Policy at and California Privacy Notice at .

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Stop Being "Chill" on Dating Apps: Why You Must Be Ruthless Jennie Young • 448 is an episode from Mind Love ♡ Modern Mindfulness by Melissa Monte | Conscious Coach.

This episode is 00:55:49 long.

This episode was published on Apr 7, 2026.

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