1850 you are what you avoid

Make Your Damn Bed by Julie Merica

Sep 10, 202610:22Education

You are not only what you consciously intend. You are also what you habitually avoid, deny, and disown. The shadow is not your enemy, and it is not your identity. It is the place where refused life accumulates, waiting t...

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