When you won't see an emotionally abusive person change

Love and Abuse by Paul Colaianni

Apr 8, 202637:37Health

You can't fix what's unwilling to be fixed. And when someone would rather you and the relationship suffer and crumble than work on improving themselves, you might have only one choice left.

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