The trauma bond keeps you lovesick and broken

Love and Abuse by Paul Colaianni

Jun 4, 202630:49Health

A trauma bond is like being addicted to both the highs and lows, just waiting for your next fix. It's not impossible to break a trauma bond, but it can be hard as hell.

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