Can you still like someone who hurt you but not love them?

Love and Abuse by Paul Colaianni

May 28, 202640:53Health

Can the victim of emotional abuse accept the former abuser as a friend after a lot of time has passed? I received this question from someone who used to be emotionally abusive, feels awful about it, but has been out of t...

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