Bucket Emptying: Foundations to Building Confidence

In today’s bucket-emptying episode, you’ll learn the three essential foundations your child needs before confidence can grow. If you’ve got a child who avoids challenges, gets overwhelmed easily, or insists they’re “rubbish” at everything, this is where you start. In this episode you’ll discover how to explain the mind–body connection in a way your child can actually understand, why their brain often misreads situations as danger, and how this shapes their confidence. You’ll also learn why breathing techniques aren’t just “calming tools” but a physiological reset your child needs before they can face anything tricky. Finally, you’ll explore how to build an exposure ladder - a simple, structured way to help your child take small, doable steps outside their comfort zone. By the end of this episode, you’ll know exactly how to lay the groundwork so your child feels capable, prepared, and ready to try. So pour yourself a cuppa, find a comfy seat, and enjoy the conversation… Mentioned in this episode: Boost Your Child’s Confidence in 10 Days: 30 Second Reset: Highlights from this episode: 01:24 - It’s all about experience 03:31 - The connection between mind and body 08:01 - Selective hearing 11:41 - The invisible gorilla 13:27 - Breathing techniques 19:10 - Get the foundations right 💚 Please share with at least one friend, and let’s build our village together 💚 For all previous episodes, and to submit episode topics you want me to talk about, visit 💚 For the free resource library, visit 💚 Join our campaign One Million Moments to reduce the number of children struggling with mental health challenges from 17% to 10% by 2025 💚 Brands and advertisers, email contact@drmaryhan.com DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast is not intended to constitute or be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your doctor or other qualified health care provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on the podcast or on my website. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Bucket Emptying: Foundations to Building Confidence is an episode from How Not to Screw Up Your Kids by Dr Maryhan.

This episode is 21:48 long.

This episode was published on Apr 19, 2026.

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