S22E3: Decentering Men & Dating (Without Giving Up On Finding Love) w/ Allison Goldberg

Have you ever felt so burnt out on dating you wanted to give up? This may sound counterintuitive but we're talking about how decentering men and dating could be the key to removing this dating exhaustion – and ultimately finding your person. We're talking with comedian Allison Goldberg about how she shifted her dating strategy to staying open to meeting someone but not making her whole life centered around it. We're discussing the difference of decentering vs not trying at all, how to avoid slipping into the line of heterofatalism, and tangible ways you can build an incredible life that someone is only so lucky to join. Enjoy! To learn more about Alli and to go to a Love Isn't Blind show near you, go to Take the Dating Archetypes quiz now: Read our book: How To Be Dateable: The Essential Guide To Finding Your Person and Falling in Love: Try the Dateable AI Dating Coach: Get personalized advice trained on our years of podcast episodes, courses and frameworks:

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S22E3: Decentering Men & Dating (Without Giving Up On Finding Love) w/ Allison Goldberg is an episode from Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating by Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick.

This episode is 68:31 long.

This episode was published on Feb 24, 2026.

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