
Episode 87--X & Y On The Fly--The Evolution Of Dating Advice
Dating and relationship advice has gone through significant changes over the last 20 years. Some of it has been good and necessary evolution...
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I'm Scot and she's Emily. We're the dating coaches you know and love over at X & Y Communications. Join us for the most heartfelt and action-packed dating podcast on planet Earth. We hit the...

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