What Do You Really Want?

We all have an answer ready when someone asks us what we want. More peace. More freedom. Better relationships. More purpose. More time. More money. Less stress. But what if that answer isn’t actually true? What if the reason you don’t have what you say you want… is because a deeper part of you doesn’t feel safe having it? In this episode, we’re talking about: The difference between what you say you want and what your system is prepared to hold How conflicting desires keep you stuck (freedom vs safety, visibility vs approval, growth vs belonging) The nervous system’s preference for the familiar — even when the familiar hurts What would have to change in your life if you actually got the thing you’ve been asking for The responsibility, visibility, and grief that often come with expansion Why goals can feel unsafe The hidden payoff of staying the same Subconscious loyalty to old identities Why trying harder isn’t the answer And how to begin aligning your desires with your capacity to receive them Because sometimes the truth is… You don’t actually want what you say you want. You want what feels safe. And until those two things match — nothing changes. Hey! Thanks for listening! If you liked this episode, please send us a message. We'd love to hear from you! Your cup is full, your journey awaits. Let’s sip, chat, and transform together. Find out more at Julietta Wenzel Founder of Body & Soul Ministries, Julietta is a healer, guide, and visionary dedicated to helping others remember their true selves and step into their authentic power. With a background as a physical therapist turned spiritual practitioner, she combines individual healing sessions, sacred ceremonies, and transformative retreats to guide her community toward joy, fulfillment, and alignment. Instagram: @bodyandsoulministries Dorice Ross Elder of Body & Soul Ministries, Dorice is a healer, educator, and guide devoted to supporting others in remembering their divinity and lived experience of Oneness. With a background in physical therapy and university-level teaching, her path has always bridged the body, mind, and spirit. Rooted in both psychology and energy healing, and inspired by diverse spiritual traditions, Dorice creates safe, compassionate spaces where healing unfolds naturally. Her work is guided by love, deep listening, and trust in the wisdom of Source. Instagram: @rossdorice Shine bright and have a magical day! Julietta & Dorice

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What Do You Really Want? is an episode from Voices of the Goddess by Julietta Wenzel and Dorice Ross.

This episode is 45:42 long.

This episode was published on Feb 24, 2026.

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