WYC 156 – Girls Lacrosse – Dave Briglio – Say Less & Ask More

Dave's bio: My direct sports coaching experience range from 2-10th grade for the past 10-yrs, but I also intersect with the varsity players while I’m working w JV (girls lacrosse). But my day job (consulting Engineer) is what led me to learning to coach adults on the job, and see how similar the process is between 8-18 yr olds and 22-62 yr olds...different nuances, but it all comes from the same place: connections, compassion and creating community. And it doesn’t have to be all rainbows and unicorns; but it certainly takes a lot more than “managing” and “instructing” with a firm attitude. My big interest is seeing how critical youth/HS sports are in helping the next generation grow into the best people they can be. And I tell stories about my time as an athlete, mentors I’ve found after college, my family history (Dad created a company/vocation with a HS diploma and a work ethic futures through sports), and the young people I “serve” as their “Chief” Engineer. And I now use these stories to help PARENTS see how to have less worry and find more joy in their kids’ sports/school. website: Podcast: Making the Play Twitter: @complete3org1 Facebook: /complete3 Listen Now: Listen on iTunes: iTunes link Listen on Stitcher: Stitcher link Listen on Google Play Music: Google Play link- - New Sponsor! Want to save time running your sports team without paying a penny? Overwhelmed by constant texts, calls and emails? Check out the Heja app, which helps coaches all over the world more easily manage youth sports teams - 100% free of charge! Click the link to download the app and get your team better organized for free now! app.goheja.com/pod Show Notes - WYC 156 – Dave Briglio Coaching your own kids In an ideal world you can have non-parent coaches, but often there aren't enough coaches so you have to step up to help the program The key is to be open and honest and communicate with your own kid and the other kids about being a parent coach Teaching skills Guided Discovery - It is more effective to let the kids figure it out on their own vs you just telling the kids how to do it Start with a basic drill, and as they develop expertise in that skill, you add a twist to the drill to add complexity Letting the players own the game The players can't hear you - so barking orders during the game is very inneffective and frustrating Send in instructions with the next group/line. Coach them vs. yelling at the players on the field. Achieving Peak performance mentally Praise the effort over achievement Fear is a very short-term motivation. A feeling of security and that someone believes in you is best way to increase kids' confidence. Figure out what you want to celebrate - and do it a bunch, in practice and in games. Real-time (otherwise it feels like false praise if you do it later.) Some of the best praise is when you are doing it 'behind their back' - when you are praising someone who is not there at the time. Self Esteem vs Self Confidence Confidence is what you visibly display. But esteem is what you truly believe about yourself. Favorite books: The Leadership Servitude The Way of the Champion by Dr. Jerry Lynch The Coaching Habit by Michael Bungay Stangier Parting Advice Play with them - Jump in and practice with them -- Reviews are the lifeblood of the podcast!- If you like the podcast- please take 2 minutes to write a review! Click here - Ready to be an Awesome Youth Coach? Sign up for our free weekly newsletter: SaveSave

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WYC 156 – Girls Lacrosse – Dave Briglio – Say Less & Ask More is an episode from The Winning Youth Coaching Podcast: Youth Sports | Coaching | Parenting | Family Resources by Craig Haworth: Youth Sports Coaching Strategist and Podcaster.

This episode is 1:07:34 long.

This episode was published on Sep 21, 2018.

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