Everything I've Learned From The Therapist Chair The B-sides

Tony covers 7 through 10 of his ever-growing list of "Everything I Know," aka all of the things he's learned from his therapist's chair. In today's episode he covers: Let's assume that people don't wake up and think "What can I do today to hurt my partner?" Working from that assumption, you're in a much better position to see that person with empathy, instead of from the depths of your bunker. Also, "to be heard is to be healed," we all want to know that we matter to someone, that they are there for us, that somebody has our backs. And finally, nobody likes to be "should on," including our own brains (which is why telling yourself NOT to think about a pink elephant with wings...wearing a tutu causes you to do the exact opposite...you're thinking about it right now aren't you!?). Tony also tells the "story of two couples," both come to therapy after traumatic events and one year later how different each couple looks based on the work that they did over the past year. - Tony's FREE parenting course, "Tips For Parenting Positively Even In the Not So Positive Times" is available NOW. Just go to and sign up today. This course will help you understand why it can be so difficult to communicate with and understand your children. You'll learn how to keep your buttons hidden, how to genuinely give praise that will truly build inner wealth in your child, teen, or even in your adult children, and you'll learn how to move from being "the punisher" to being someone your children will want to go to when they need help. And Tony is so confident that this program will work, that he's offering a money-back guarantee! - This episode of The Virtual Couch is sponsored by Betterhelp.com/virtualcouch With the continuing "sheltering" rules that are spreading across the country PLEASE do not think that you can't continue or begin therapy now. Betterhelp.com/virtualcouch can put you quickly in touch with licensed mental health professionals who can meet through text, email, or videoconference often as soon as 24-48 hours. And if you use the link you will receive 10% off your first month of services. Please make your own mental health a priority, offers affordable counseling, and they even have sliding scale options if your budget is tight. - Tony's new best selling book "He's a Porn Addict...Now What? An Expert and a Former Addict Answer Your Questions" is now available on Kindle. - Tony Overbay, is the co-author of "He's a Porn Addict...Now What? An Expert and a Former Addict Answer Your Questions" now available on Amazon . The book debuted in the number 1 spot in the Sexual Health Recovery category and remains there as the time of this record. The book has received numerous positive reviews from professionals in the mental health and recovery fields. -- You can learn more about Tony's pornography recovery program The Path Back by visiting And visit and sign up to receive updates on upcoming programs, and podcasts.

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This episode was published on Aug 5, 2020.

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