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Why Trying to Have Good Sex is Killing Arousal — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

The New Man by Tripp Lanier

Aug 25, 202642:12Business

Today Alyson and I talk about how sex in the real world can often become awkward or mechanical. We explore why striving to meet expectations kills the mood and why amplifying desire might require you to do the exact oppo...

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