Stop “Shoulding” All Over Yourself — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Do you have a voice in your head telling you what you should and shouldn’t do? Why does this “tyranny of should” drain our aliveness, passion, and connection? And how might your life change if you weren’t afraid to be who you truly are? Today, Alyson and I talk about how we all “should” on ourselves and each other. We explore how this can leave us feeling trapped and emotionally constipated—and what life can feel like when we loosen our grip on control. COACHING - To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit - To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit BOOK - We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. - Visit

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Stop “Shoulding” All Over Yourself — Alyson and Tripp Lanier is an episode from The New Man by Tripp Lanier.

This episode is 46:07 long.

This episode was published on Aug 12, 2025.

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