Why do abusive people want to hurt you on purpose?

The Narcissists' Code by Lee Hammock

Aug 28, 202600:33:37Health

Why do abusive people hurt you on purpose, then blame you for the pain they caused? In this video, Lee Hammock explains how control, punishment, shame, resentment, emotional immaturity, and the need to feel powerful can...

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