What Actually Hurts An Avoidant Ex

The Art of Love Podcast by Lucia

Apr 29, 202600:13:20Society & Culture

If you're wondering what actually hurts an avoidant ex after a breakup, it 's usually not what most people think. In this episode, I break down what really gets through to an avoidant ex, what keeps them emotionally shut...

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