EP475 - How to Get the Sex Life You Crave

Welcome to Episode 475 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I am excited to be joined by Caitlin V , who speaks to me about erectile unpredictability, performance anxiety, and supporting men’s sexuality through a holistic, shame-free lens. A quick note for my single listeners in California, if you're craving intentional, psychologically grounded ways to meet people. We have a beautiful offering coming up through LALOVELAB.com ; a company I co-created with my colleague Dr. Richard Espinoza. Our next matchmaking event is Saturday February 7th at 4:00pm hosted at the Craft Contemporary Museum in LA . It's thoughtfully curated experience designed by us to help you connect with intention, not apps. In this episode, Caitlyn and I discuss how many men are struggling with sexual performance earlier in life and why this is not a personal failure or a flaw. We also talk about how cultural expectations, lack of accurate sex education, and constant exposure to unrealistic sexual imagery can shape anxiety around erections, desire, and confidence. Caitlin V is one of today’s leading voices in modern sexuality and the host of the HBO Max series Good Sex. A researcher and coach with a background in public health, she has empowered millions to transform their sex lives through her coaching, courses, and viral online content. Her evidence-based, shame-free approach bridges clinical research with real-world intimacy, showing how better sex can make us better humans. Featured in O Magazine, GQ, Variety, and more, Caitlin champions a vision of sexuality that makes us not only better lovers--but more compassionate humans. In this episode, you will hear: · Understanding Erectile Unpredictability · Performance Anxiety And Its Root Causes · Porn, Arousal, And Unrealistic Expectations · Treating Men’s Sexuality Holistically · Breaking Shame And Silence Around Sex · Talking To A Partner With Confidence · Rebuilding Erotic Connection As A Couple · Reducing Pressure And Outcome Focus · Sex Toys And Supportive Tools For Men · Practical Exercises For Emotional Intimacy Spice Up Your Social Media Feed AND Your Sex Life:

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EP475 - How to Get the Sex Life You Crave is an episode from Sexology by Nazanin Moali, Ph.D..

This episode is 45:32 long.

This episode was published on Jan 27, 2026.

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