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Who is Xian'er? Robot Monk? Little Monk? Subscribe to "Robot Monk Xian'er" to learn wisdom to deal with negative emotions and afflictions in our everyday life. You might find out that Xian'e...
我们应该如何看待人情世故？ How should we view human feelings? 不离人情，关键看自己的发心。 Not departing from human feelings, the keypoint rests in our aspiration. 应该怎...
应该怎么办？ What should I do? 不要当做还债，要当做结善缘。 Don't treat it as paying a debt,but view itas making good connections. 那别人帮了你，也应该有所回馈吧。 If you got h...
对，就是不愿欠人情。 Yes. I just don't want to owe interpersonaldebt. “欠人情”的心态，感恩心少而不安更多，因为担心自己将来还人情的麻烦，无形中把人与人之间的关心帮助当做了交换，这是一种自我包裹的表现，是内心虚弱、自卑、怕受伤害的...
提问（金心）Question ( By Jin Xin) 回 答（贤勇）Answer ( By Xian Yong) 我特别害怕求人，如果谁帮了我就总想着怎么赶紧把这份情还回去，心里沉甸甸的。您帮我分析分析这是怎么回事。 I am particularly afraid to a...
有很多假冒的乞讨者利用我们的同情心骗取钱财，收入比我们还高。我们该如何面对那些乞讨者？ Many fake beggars take advantage of ourcompassion to defraud, making even more money than we do....
亏欠心与感恩心该如何区分？ How to distinguish between a heart of thanksgiving and a feeling of debt? 亏欠的感觉，内心是封闭的，会感到欠了别人的人情、恩情而沉重不安，感恩心则是一种开放、坦然、真心实意的欢喜...
对骗子短暂的慈悲可能会助长他们不劳而获的习气，如果拒绝施舍可以促使他们改变，从而走上正道不是更好么？ Temporary compassion for deceivers may reinforce their habit of getting something for not...
分不清真假乞丐时，我担心被骗，不愿意给骗子送钱，但就这么走过，心里同情又愧疚。该怎样办呢？ When I couldn't tell a real beggar from a fake one, I was afraid of being cheated and was relu...
老师好，在大街上总是遇到乞丐，无法判断是真是假，不知该不该布施，请您指导。 Venerable Master, I come across beggars inthe streets very often, but can ’ t tell if theyare fake or...
怎么去努力呢？ How do you do that? 在平常的生活中，要多练习去看一个人的优点和付出，增长自己的感激之心。也就是多培养感恩心、惭愧心、慈悲心。这几种心的特质跟嗔心恰好相反，就像水与火一样，培养这几种心，就好比把内心的易燃物换成柔软清凉的净水，火就烧不起来了。 I...
暴躁的性格能改得了吗？ Is it possible to change the short-tempered character? 要改掉一个坏习惯，最好的办法莫过于培养一个好习惯。 The best way to get rid of a bad habit is to de...
我总控制不住自己，为世俗的一些不公平或者小事而生气，如何能够保持清净之心？ I tend to be so carried away that I get angry at some secular injustices or trifles. How can I keep a...
我一遇到棘手的事或是赶时间，就很容易生气着急，一不小心就把身边的人给伤害了，我该怎样调节呢？ I’m quite anger-prone as I’m in a rush or when things get tough, accidentally getting people...
老师好，脾气不好，很容易发火，怎么破？ Hello Master, I have a bad temper and tend to fly off the handle. How to tackle this problem? 有佛法就有办法。 Where there is Bu...
这些方法我也都试过，可是觉得不管用，我的拖延症是不是治不好了！ I've tried them all, but I don't think theywork. I wonder if my procrastination is incurable! 不管用多少理由去分析，用多少...
还有时，我觉得自己不想做这件事的原因是觉得这件事情不合适。如何区别这是拖延症，还是这件事情确实不适合自己呢？ At other times, I think the reason for myreluctance in doing things is the idea that...
究竟是什么原因导致的拖延症呢？ What on earth leads to procrastination? 拖延症有很多原因：畏难情绪、侥幸心理等等，而当它成为一个习惯之后，这个惯性的力量就成为了最重要的原因。 There are many causes of procras...
老师好，有些很烦恼的事，想请您帮忙解答！ Dear teacher, I ’ ve got something vexing. Could you please help me out? 请讲。 Yes, please. 我行动力非常缺乏，老是拖拖拉拉，常常把自己拉到焦虑和抑郁的...
在生活中总能遇到“三个和尚没水吃”的情况。懒惰，等待别人似乎是没有办法解决的问题，要怎么办呢？应该视而不见和别人一起等待，还是永远自己替别人去挑水？ The case of “ three monkshave no water to drink ” always occursin...
为了强大，就得让心变硬、变坏吧！所以有那么多善良的人在这世间经历生活之后变成一个丑陋的人，变成世俗之人！ Probably, in order to be strong, we have to harden our heart and getit gone bad. That ’...
我真诚待人，人不真诚待我，该如何？我以善意待人，人以恶意待我，又该如何？一味心善，被踩死是活该吗？ I am sincere to others, what if others are not sincere to me? And Itreat others with kindn...
老师好，我总是很担心“人善被人欺”。 Greetings,Master. I am always worried that “ nice guys areprone to be bullied. ” 怎么会这么想呢？ Why doyou think so? 我发善心去帮助别人，却...
Fix the mind When we focus our attention on the outsideworld, we forget to “fix the mind”, which is the core of cultivation. When judging ot...
A troubled heart We experience pain because we rely on the external to bring ushappiness. When the heart is troubled, peace only comes withi...
Loving one’s parents Filial piety lies insincerity instead of materials. To support and wait upon our parents, the bestway is to do it appro...
When you can’t get over something, just stop thinking about it How can we find a way out of a maze? It is easy to have a clear picture ifwe...
我在和别人一起做事时，总是特别在意别人对我的看法，请问这是一种怎样的烦恼？应该怎样去对治它？ When I work with others, Ialways care about what others think of me. Could you tell me what a...
问：老师，一个人总是很在意他人的看法如何是好，明知不必在乎，可是遇事依旧很在意他人眼中的自己， Master, what can I do if I always care too much about others ’ opinion? I know there is no n...
问：我总是害怕失败，害怕别人笑话我，于是什么都不敢做。我总是想把事情做到十全十美，虽然我也知道世上无完事，但总会这么想。我从小生活在一个没有人肯定我的家庭中，我还有个妹妹，小时候，她经常不及格，而我总是考班级前几名。可是，我的爸爸总是会鼓励妹妹，夸赞她。而对我，总是大骂，怪我没考...
2 、问：为何我每做一件事或说了什么话，都有人拿来做文章或背后议论，总怕被人指指点点，特别焦虑！ Why do I get picked on or gossiped about behind my back every time Ido or say something? I...
人生活在这个社会中，总会与人打交道，很多人活在他人的眼光中，痛苦不堪。 As youknow, people living in this society always have to deal with each other. Butmany living in others’...
Envy, jealousy, hatred Delusion breeds jealousy. To take others’gain as one’s own loss, to separate, and to contrast, all these lead todepre...
A soft and open heart To stick to our own ideas does notnecessarily mean to shun others’ opinions. If we are down because of our thoughtsnot...
A positive and happy mind Adjustments should be made when work piles up, but most importantly,we should adjust our mindset of resentment. Ou...
Wishingfor nothing To wish for nothing is still a wish. It is a wish for liberated ease when alltightly entangled knots are cut off. Therefo...
Who am I? The “self” is a concept created from ourdream-thinking, which means something permanent, autonomous and dominant. Wealways believe...
Right and Wrong More often than not, when disputing on"rights and wrongs", we actually have been far removed from thethings in themselves, a...
I can figure this out To fear andworry about imaginary difficulties is nothing but your own illusions. Even ifnothing occurs, you might alre...
Generate theinner light Tounderstand all phenomena is to have knowledge; to know the principles behind thephenomena is to have wisdom. With...
Thedouble-headed bird There isa Buddhist story about a double-headed bird. The two heads compete against eachother for fruit. One head delib...
Why are you so easily swayed by outside conditions? Our purity and kindness are the same as that of our good-knowing advisors. The only diff...
Whom to compare with? What to compare with? Comparisons are not all wrong. The key is to compare what, And with what purpose. We should comp...
Turn the mind to a new direction The Buddha Dharma believes that “the mindis like a painter.” Everything in the world, beautiful or ugly, go...
Tranquility If your mind is agitated, afflictions are stirring up.Tranquility in the Buddhist context is achieved due to wisdom’s capacity t...
The stuff of “I” is no good Some people are greedy for money, some for good reputation. The latter ones are chained to vanity, and not able...
Not talking about other’s fault When facing problems, most people would blame others for it right away, and seldom reflect on themselves, es...
Happy and fearless We may feel extremely tired if we regard doing something as a task that has to be finished, or, if we do it in the hope o...
A truly beneficial friend In order to make a truly beneficial friend who dare to give you critical advice, one has to have a big heart. The...
Who is Xian'er? Robot Monk? Little Monk? Subscribe to "Robot Monk Xian'er" to learn wisdom to deal with negative emotions and afflictions in...
The key to spiritual cultivation To be the oretically right does not meanone’s heart is “right”. The key to spiritual cultivation is to be m...