That “Be a Sub First” Advice? Not So Fast - Episode 267

“If you want to be a good Dom, you should be a sub first.” You’ve heard it. A lot. In this episode, we’re unpacking where that advice comes from, what it gets right, and where it completely misses the mark. Because understanding your partner matters—but forcing yourself into a role that isn’t yours isn’t the answer. Let’s talk about what actually makes someone a better Dom. Visit for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more! Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discount and use code PINKKINK10 for 10% off

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That “Be a Sub First” Advice? Not So Fast - Episode 267 is an episode from Pink Kink by Princess Rara and Electro Khaleesi.

This episode is 01:04:54 long.

This episode was published on Apr 17, 2026.

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