EP 286: A Checklist for BEING, not doing

Parenting After Trauma with Robyn Gobbel by Robyn Gobbel

Sep 29, 202643:19Kids & family

I know how intensely we want a checklist. Do this, this, and this, and the dysregulation will end, and your kid will be OK. This episode is the story of chasing exactly that list (Dr. Sears' Attachment Parenting checklis...

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