The Argument Black Hole

Have you or your spouse ever said something along the lines of, "We argue over little things.", or "None of our arguments ever get resolved." If you have, then you have fallen headfirst into the Argument Black Hole. Join them this week, as the guys talk about the biggest mistake couples make when they have a disagreement. ----- PROBLEM: Arguing over facts Arguing over who's reality is correct Winning is more important than solving the problem My Side Bias skews facts Memories are NOT accurate recordings of events. Research suggests that that we remember what we WANT to believe happened SOLUTION: Realize that the argument is not about the facts The event is the surface problem to a root cause Chose the hill you will die on Must be able to agree to disagree ----- Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers , Instagram: @jmyersfam , and Facebook: @docjimmymyers Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast , Instagram: @docspodcast , and Facebook: @docspodcast How do give to the show: The Timothy Center:

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The Argument Black Hole is an episode from Pairadocs by Pairadocs.

This episode is 21:12 long.

This episode was published on Nov 30, 2020.

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